(Note: This post is based on the preface to Life As Worship by John Kitchen.)
We each have a primary metaphor through which we interpret life. The metaphor in your head is the standard by which you evaluate your experiences, emote, make choices, choose words, put one foot in front of the other and make it through each day.
So says author and pastor John Kitchen in the preface to his transformational book, Life As Worship. Your metaphor is your reason “why” – the thing that makes everything else make sense. It’s a reference point for what you say, what you do, and how you see the world. It is the glue that holds the pieces of your life together. You identify your primary metaphor when you complete the statement: Life is ______.
Kitchen suggests that most people would complete the statement with an answer that centers on self: “life is a struggle” (for me) or “life is a party” (for me) or “life is survival” (for me). Such a person would say, “the thing(s) that give my life meaning and purpose, and will bring my life to an ultimate fulfillment, are my struggles and how I deal with them, my successes, my comfort, my acquisitions, etc. My life is centered on me.”
Such a person may believe in God and may even trust Him, but God is peripheral. He is considered a resource, called upon when needed and thanked when His impact on life is noticed and appreciated.
Having been in pastoral ministry for thirty years, Kitchen’s insights are most probably correct. For most people, God and worship are peripheral, not central. Jesus becomes a means to an end, the end being forgiveness of MY sins and eternity in heaven; again, “for me.” Those whose “god” will accept being on the periphery have created an idol.
For a properly oriented Christian, however – and by that I mean someone who is truly saved and reconciled – the center or reference point is NOT “self” – nor is it heaven. Rather, it is Jesus Christ. This is as it should be. Two simple facts establish this. First, everything about everything is about the glory of God:
For of Him and through Him and to Him are all things, to whom be glory forever. Amen. – Romans 11:36
Second, everything about everything is by the grace of God:
… nor is He worshiped with men’s hands, as though He needed anything, since He gives to all life, breath, and all things. – Acts 17:25
For who makes you differ from another? And what do you have that you did not receive? Now if you did indeed receive it, why do you boast as if you had not received it? – 1 Cor. 4:7
Kitchen asserts, “If everything about everything is about the glory of God, everything must become an expression of worship. If everything about everything is by the grace of God, then everything is a divine initiative designed to evoke a response of worship.”
These two scriptures tell us not only something about God, but also something about His creation. Everything must conform to the purpose of God’s glory. That includes you, me, our choices, our thoughts, our words, the way we do our work, the way we relate to the people in our lives, and everything else.
These verses point to the proper center of life, and the center of life is necessarily the object of worship. There is no clearer way to say it. What we center our lives on is what we worship. And if that center is NOT God, then we’re living in idolatry, regardless of our profession of faith, church attendance, good deeds, clean life, or anything else.
Perhaps we struggle with the idea of a life consumed and defined by worship because we have a flawed idea of what worship really is. In this, church traditions do not help. Our common ideas of worship include a church building, the presence of other believers, and specific prescribed activities such as singing hymns, contributing financially to the support of the church and its ministries, listening to religious music (e.g. worship bands or church choirs), listening to sermons, praying, making vows to “be a better Christian” and so forth.
Churches also constrain or misrepresent worship by an implicit and sometimes explicit message such as “Enter to worship; exit to serve” which proposes that worship is a scripted activity done in a sacred space and directed by a minister or religious authority. In this view, worship is distinct from the time spent outside in the secular world, where your time is not devoted to worship, but rather to some form of service, however that may be defined. This effectively separates worship from daily life.
Scripture knows no such separation, because the essence of worship is the rational response of a creature to the character and grace of the Creator. This is not defined by or constrained by time or location. It is a spiritual engagement with and response to God which is grounded in revealed and manifested truth. It is NOT a ritual or a liturgy. Rituals and liturgies were abandoned when Jesus said, “ … those who worship Him must worship in spirit and in truth.” (John 4:24)
For your local church, the correct admonition would be more like: “Enter to edify and be edified; exit to worship.” This was apparently understood by the nascent church but has been obscured as the church became more paganized. Accordingly, the early church did not have “worship services.”
Pastor Kitchen continues:
Everything about everything must become an expression of worship to God! We are not called merely to weekly worship, periodic worship, rhythmic or seasonal worship. We are called to worship at the speed of life!
“That is what our lives are called to be: living, unfolding expressions of worship. Not just on Sunday. Not just in the moments we may take each day to read God’s Word and pray. Not just in a brief prayer before a meal. Not only when life is going well. Worship is the talking, thinking, driving, working, playing, relaxing. It is the serving, helping, mowing, bathing, buying, selling, eating. Everything!”
In his letter to the Romans, Paul discussed “reasonable service” (Greek “λατρεία” which is literally “service” and is rendered “spiritual worship” or “service of worship” in some translations) with Paul’s amplifying comments largely ignored or misconstrued by modern Christians. Paul emphasized a LIFE that demonstrates God’s will. One does not present oneself “symbolically” for maybe an hour on Sunday, then revert to worldliness for the rest of the week. Neither does one demonstrate God’s perfect will by sitting in a pew.
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may demonstrate in your life the will of God; that which is good, and acceptable, and perfect. – Romans 12:1-2
Some of us may have chosen to define and limit worship by experience; that is, we let our view of reality define our reverence for God. Happiness or pleasant experiences motivate us to be thankful, while we allow the unpleasant vicissitudes of life to justify dissatisfaction or ungratefulness.
This is precisely the opposite of life as God intended it. First, God deserves worship regardless of our circumstances. Second, life’s unpleasantries are also gifts from God – they may hurt but they are also included in the “all things” of Romans 8:28 –
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.“
This was clearly understood by the early church, which included this specific admonition in the Didache:
Accept whatever happens to you as good, knowing that apart from God nothing comes to pass.
– Didache, chapter 3
God has revealed truth about Himself in scripture. He has also manifested truth about Himself in the things He has created. There are at least two appropriate responses. First is prayer – constant acknowledgement of our dependence on Him, and His loving eagerness to meet our needs.
Our second response is gratitude. He has given us everything we need for life and godliness, and being grateful is both appropriate and reasonable. But what does it look like? Paul tells us:
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Do not quench the Spirit. Do not despise prophecies. Test all things; hold fast what is good and abstain from every form of evil. – 1 Thess. 5:16-22
There is, of course, the application side of this transformation. And first is the un-learning of what we’ve been told is “worship” – those events or activities commonly done in church services. Life as worship does NOT mean a life devoted to singing hymns, listening to sermons, or giving money for church activities. Rather, it’s anchored to a verse we’ve probably all seen but never really thought through:
And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.
And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ.
– Col. 3:17, 23-24 (emphasis added)
What does this look like? Here are some illustrations: a mechanic is repairing a car. If he does his work as if the car belongs to and will be driven by Jesus Christ, would that make a difference in how he did his work? An investment counselor gives financial advice. Does he do so to extend grace and God’s blessing to his clients, or is it just for the money?
This is one approach, and though it’s perfectly valid, it comes with a caveat, because it can easily turn into what I call “Christianity-by-guilt-trip,” and by that I mean the idea that Jesus is always looking over your shoulder and that by less than optimal performance, you can cause His displeasure. Avoiding negative consequences is NOT worship.
The high road to a life of worship is in training yourself to see God’s hand in ALL of His works. The mechanic sees his mechanical skill as a gift from God. He rejoices in being able to use it, and thanks God that he can spend his productive days engaged in something he enjoys. He excels in his work because he loves the God who gave him his gifts. That’s worship.
Similarly, the investment counselor delights in asking for and receiving wisdom from God to help his clients to become responsible financial stewards. He excels in his work, knowing it’s a gift from God. He strives to extend God’s grace into every part of the world he can affect.
All of us should realize how good life is compared to what it could be if creation were haphazard, or if God were indifferent to our condition. Compare the lowest common denominator you would need to just survive to the standard you enjoy. The difference between the two is a manifestation of God’s grace toward you.
The one whose life is worship looks at all of life with a heart of gratitude. He recognizes the beauty God has put into all of creation, and sees God’s lavish grace in everything. This engenders continual thanksgiving. After all, God did not have to give us sweet, fresh air. He is not required to give us a variety of delicious foods, or clean drinking water. And truth be told: there are a LOT of people on this planet who do not enjoy many of these blessing we take more-or-less for granted.
We have all seen homeless people on the street. Probably few people who see them think, “that could be me. It is because of God’s grace toward me that I’m not on the street.” Most either ignore them, or may think, “that could never be me. I’m not homeless because I work hard and I make better decisions.” The first is God-centered, and responds with gratitude and worship. The second is self-centered and responds with self-commendation. Both may give money to the homeless, one to express thanks to God and extend His grace, and the second to demonstrate that he’s a “good person.” Same circumstance, same stimulus, same external response. But one is worship and one is an insult to God.
This is one example. Daily life contains hundreds of what we might call “decision points.” At each, we can choose to worship. We can choose to be grateful and gracious.
The chief end of man is to glorify God, enjoy Him forever, and see His hand in all His works. This is not something that happens in the future, in heaven, or after the Millennium. It is something that begins now and increases forever. Life as worship looks like that: glorifying and enjoying God, seeing what He has done and continues to do, thanking Him for it, and allowing Him to extend His grace to others through us.
Please don’t shrug this off. Consider what I’ve presented and leave a comment.
(Disclaimer-of-sorts: This began as a transcript of the preface to Life As Worship but quickly expanded as I considered and amplified the themes of Mr. Kitchen’s work. For the sake of flow and readability, I did not put his words into quotes in all cases. While I have a high degree of confidence that he would agree with my ideas, I must state that I don’t speak for him. I believe my use of his work qualifies as “fair use” under the copyright laws.)